Naira Life Vol 139

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Volume 139

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Ask Aunty M with Reni

I'm a student and fashion designer. I'm married with two kids and currently have no source of income. My husband provides, but I need more. I pity him, so I tend to manage my resources, but I need more and want more for my kids. I'm tired, confused, and don't know what to do with my life. - Bisi, 23

Hi Bisi. Understandably, you feel a little overwhelmed as you're balancing a lot. It's great that you want to have your own money and contribute to the household -- I'm a big advocate for that. Here are some steps I would follow:

First, look into your strengths and opportunities to make money in your field. I know you're a student, and a full-time job may only be feasible after you graduate, but you are also a fashion designer. Can you monetise this passion by doing freelance work or selling your designs online? You must set clear goals for yourself and your business if you want to start making extra money.

Second, speak to your husband about how you are feeling. You never know…he could think that the amount he is giving you is sufficient because you are managing it and not voicing how you feel. You are married, and communication is key. Try to have an open discussion about your financial needs and whether he can provide more support or support you in taking steps to increase your own income.

Third, seek counsel. You mentioned that you don't know what to do with your life. Is this from the fatigue of managing school, work, home and children? Or is there simply nothing you're interested in pursuing? Motherhood is hard, and sometimes, being able to take a break, rest, and talk to a third party will leave you feeling recharged and energised to start again. You've got this.

Xoxo, Reni

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